In my latest series How to Meet Women (To Cheat On Your Girlfriend With) I’ve shared with you my favorite techniques and approaches to meeting new women.
But equally as important is to know the circumstances where the women you meet should be considered off limits. Separating the viable opportunity from the risky one will keep your relationship with your girlfriend intact.
Where Not to Meet Women
At Work
First and foremost you do not want to date women from work; this is a good rule to follow whether you want to make her your girlfriend or just keep her for the occasional Nooner. Any woman you work with has access to you for eight hours a day, minimum. She has access to the people you work with who can overhear telephone conversations, and if she is sneaky enough she can have access to your emails. Also, if you want to go on a lunch date with another woman it will be much more of a hassle to get away. If you receive any special cards for you birthday, or if one of your other women decides to stop by to "surprise" you, it could lead to an ugly altercation. All of which could have easily been prevented by abstaining from a workplace relationship.
I personally have been in this predicament and I can strongly advise you that it’s not worth the headache, no matter how attractive she might be.
Through Your Girlfriend
Never under any circumstances cheat on your girlfriend with a woman that you met through your girlfriend; common sense right? But so many guys have been caught for this reason alone that it bears mentioning.
Even if this woman is just an acquaintance of your girlfriend, you have to remember most women cannot keep a secret, that’s a fact. Now you’re asking them to conceal one of the juiciest secrets in existence.
Besides that, there are other reasons to consider. Have you ever thought about why a friend of your girl’s might want to sleep with you? Is it since you’re so charming, handsome and alluring that she just can’t help herself? Maybe, if you’re in that 1% of the male population.
More than likely she is doing it for her own personal reasons; that might include the always popular revenge/get even/screw your girlfriend over maneuver. Women are cruel this way and you are just a tool for her to get back at your girlfriend. Obviously this can only work if you girlfriend finds out about it, and guess who is going to tell her?
A second scenario might be that the friend was in a distraught emotional condition and needed someone to comforted her (you), got caught up in the moment and had sex with you because you were there for her. When she comes to her senses and realizes this, she will feel even worse than before. Now she has this guilt hanging over her, which will eventually spill out to your girlfriend. Most women cannot keep guilty feelings like that bottled up, so hooking up way is a recipe to get caught.
A third motive could be that your girlfriend’s friend is trying to break up your relationship for her own selfish reasons. Whether to get you to be her boyfriend (which is poor judgment since you already proved to her that you aren’t the faithful type, but women still try this method anyway), or because she doesn’t like you dating her friend and doesn’t want you around. She can always tell your girlfriend that she was drunk and you took advantage of her to try and preserve their friendship but still get you out of the picture. Not as a viable motive as getting you for herself, but I have seen it on occasion, either way you still get caught, that’s the main point.
Even if the friend/acquaintance is somehow able to keep the secret, then every social occasion that attends along with you and your girlfriend will be under a fog of anxiety and awkwardness for the two of you trying to pretend nothing happened. This isn’t a pleasant situation, as you can imagine.
So my best advice to you is not to cheat with one of your girlfriend’s friends. There are plenty of complete strangers out there that you can hookup with, without the rigmarole that accompanies this situation.
Through Family
Avoid getting hooked up through your family, especially since family always knows your personal business. For example, let’s assume that your Aunt introduced you to her neighbor’s daughter, who you promptly nailed on the first date. Unbeknown to your Aunt is the fact that you have Girlfriend. Now your Aunt is all excited about her love connection and calls up your Mom to tell her the good news and inevitably your Mom spills the beans about your Girlfriend. Now your Aunt is torn between her dual obligations, to you and to her neighbor’s daughter. Eventually the truth will come out because your Aunt is a nice lady and doesn’t want to anyone to get hurt. So now you have an angry neighbor’s daughter on your hands, and the fact that you have to worry about your Aunt telling your Girlfriend at the next family function.
Try to avoid family match making at all costs. You do not need any more stress than you already have, especially from your family. You’re family should be your escape from your relationship rather than part of the problem.
Take Care,
A.C.
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