Another lifestyle type that was suggested by a reader is the Unhappily Married Woman.
Although this type of woman will make it very easy to incorporate her into your infidelity, you have to keep a very close eye on her emotional involvement level.
First the good:
Since she is married she will be more paranoid about getting caught by her husband than you are about getting caught by your girlfriend. If you get caught then you experience some heartache and move on. If she gets caught her life crumbles around her romantically and financially, not to mention the familial implications if there are children involved.
For those reasons alone she will go out of the way to keep things on the down low, and if you’re on top of your game so will you. With the both of you keeping things quiet it will make things easier hide. Since she will be very careful, most of the time you two will meet up of for sexual encounters in discreet locations and part soon thereafter. You won’t have to waste your time romancing her, taking her out, wining and dining her. Most of the time she’ll just want to meet up, knock it out, and get back to picking up her kids from soccer practice.
Now the bad:
It’s all fun and games until the unhappily married woman starts becoming attached to you emotionally. Remember she is unhappily married for a reason. When you start feeling this coming on, you have to cut ties with her immediately. She might be looking at you for a way out of a bad marriage, and thinking of you as her white knight that will catch her fall. She might be misplacing her feelings of an unhappy marriage in the temporary elation that your encounters provide her. These feelings will quickly fade when she realizes that you have no intention of rescuing her, which might lead to an unpredictable response.
Not to mention that her unknowing husband might be driven off the deep end if he catches wind to your little relationship with his wife. The longer it carries on the more likely this might become reality, since the longer your relationship continues the more she will view you as her escape. When you become her savoir she might begin to get sloppy in a unconscious hope of getting caught so she can finally find the strength to end her marriage. And why not? She has her knight in shining armor (you) to save her.
My best advice is to keep these relationships short. They are exactly what you want in the early stages; a sex/affection starved woman that is in another committed relationship where the only thing you have to provide her is a passionate sexual encounter. But the longer it drags on the more she will start considering a life after her marriage with you.
Let this type of relationship exist for no longer than a month and then cut it off. Explain to her about how she needs to give her marriage another chance for the kids, make her obligations to her family guilt her out of her fantasy relationship with you. After you cut the ties, never look back.
Short term, unhappily married women are great to play your other women. Long term, they will wreck both their marriages and your relationship with your current girlfriend.
A.C.
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