Continuing my series on How To Meet Women (You Can Cheat On Your Girlfriend with) today I will discuss on a more traditional method, something we all have experience with… the Bar and Club scene.
Bars and Clubs
Rule number one is going to a place that is not frequented by your girlfriend, or her friends. Simple enough, but you can’t imagine how many guys have been tripped up by ignoring this rule. If you do go to a place your girlfriend likes, simply take the night off and don’t pick up on any women, just have fun with your friends. There is no reason to tempt fate.
Go to nightspots that are preferably out of your area or better yet out of your girlfriend's area. This will lead to reduced geographical complications, meaning that there will be a reasonable distance separating you from your girlfriend. Also, this will create a geographical buffer with any women you might meet at that nightspot since these women will most likely be from the locality of the venue and not from your area.
Try to avoid making out, or exhibiting overt affection openly in public places since you never know who else is there (co worker, friend of your girlfriend’s, etc.) that you might have not noticed or recognized. You can explain away dancing with a woman and talking to her, if it’s reported to your girlfriend. You can pull the old wingman excuse “you were just trying to be polite while your friend tried to hook up with her friend.” Don’t forget to make sure to say how much you disliked playing this role and how disinterested you were in the girl. But if you’re showing overt affection, you cannot explain away kissing and groping another woman, so maintain some semblance of self control.
Don’t give out your phone number to a woman until you have somewhat of a background on her. Where she’s from, where she works, what she does for a living, you know the basics. This will give you a general idea whether thee is any remote chance of her crossing paths with your girlfriend.
Also make sure that you use an alias, especially if its shaping up to be a one night stand, then she doesn’t need to know your real name since you have no intention of extending your interaction with her.
As to the actual how to pick up on a woman at a bar or club, you should already know that.But if that’s not your strength I’ll give you some tips that can get the ball rolling.
1. Don’t offer to buy her a drink.
This is probably the most played out method there is to get a woman to notice you. If you need to buy her something to get her attention, then you might as well hand her the money and walk away. I watched tons of guys try this over the years, and just laughed. Waited for them to pay for the drink, then I just came up on her other side and worked my way into the conversation. The sad part is when the other guy has to watch me get her phone number right in front of him, while she sips on the drink he just bought her. Ouch.
2. Say anything to get the conversation started.
It’s not that hard, ask her about her outfit, compliment her shoes or hair (women love that shit) or just start a random discussion about something going on at the bar/club. The point is to get her talking, the topic is really irrelevant.
3. Get on her team.
If you see her turning down a lot of men, that’s a perfect opportunity for you to get on her team. Start asking her what was wrong with the last couple of guys, why did she turn them down? Then transition the conversation into what type of guy she’s looking for, and then pick out some goofballs that are exact opposite that you two can make fun of together. Building camaraderie will go along way to establishing a rapport, plus she’ll be curious as to why you’re not trying to pick up on her, but the jokes on her cause you already are.
Those are probably my three favorite ways to meet women at a bar or club. You don’t have to come up with an elaborate scheme, after all these women are already alcoholically lubricated and waiting for you to make a move.
If you have a favorite pick up technique for meeting women in a bar or club, please feel free share it with the rest of us, no need to hold out.
Take Care,
A.C.
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