Thursday, January 11, 2007

NEVER HOOK UP WITH YOUR GIRLFRIEND’S FRIENDS

The 4th Unbreakable Rule of Cheating on Your Girlfriend

–NEVER HOOK UP WITH YOUR GIRLFRIEND’S FRIENDS–

That’s just asking for trouble. Most women cannot keep a secret, that’s a fact. Now you’re asking them to conceal one of the juiciest secrets in existence.Besides that, there are other reasons to consider. Have you ever thought about why a friend of your girl’s might want to sleep with you? Is it since you’re so charming, handsome and alluring that she just can’t help herself? Maybe, if you’re in that 1% of the male population.

More than likely her friend is doing it as revenge/get even/screw your girlfriend over maneuver. Women are cruel this way and you are just a tool for her to get back at your girlfriend. Obviously this can only work if you girlfriend finds out about it, and guess who is going to tell her? That’s right, the friend that you hooked up with.

A different scenario might be that the friend was in a distraught emotional condition and needed someone to be comforted by (you) and she just got caught up in the moment emotionally and had sex with you because you were there for her. When she comes to her senses and realizes this she will feel even worse than before. Now she has this guilt hanging over her, which will eventually spill out to your girlfriend. Most women cannot keep guilty feelings like that bottled up, so hooking up in this scenario is a recipe to get caught.

A third motive could very well be that your girlfriend’s friend is trying to break up your relationship for her own selfish reasons. Whether that be to get you to be her boyfriend (which is poor judgment since you already proved to her that you aren’t the faithful type, but women still try this method anyway), or because she doesn’t like you dating her friend and doesn’t want you around. She can always tell your girlfriend that she was drunk and you took advantage of her to try and preserve their friendship but still get you out of the picture. Not as a viable motive as getting you for herself, but I have seen it on occasion, either way you still get caught, that’s the main point.

There is really nothing that positive that can come out of this situation. If the friend somehow is able to keep the secret, then every social occasion that she is present for along with you and your girlfriend will be under a fog of anxiety and awkwardness for the two of you trying to pretend nothing happened. This isn’t a pleasant situation, as you can imagine.

So my best advice to you is not to cheat with one of your girlfriend’s friends. There are plenty of complete strangers out there that you can hookup with, without the rigmarole that accompanies this situation.

A.C.


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1 comment:

NG said...

Sooo true! It might be tempting, but don't do it!