Leaving Early on Special Occasions and Holidays

Tell-Tale Signs Women Look For To See If You’re Cheating On Them

In this multiple part series I have been discussing some common signs that you as a cheater might exhibit which will tip off the women in your life that you are cheating on them.
If you have read my previous three blogs (Predictable Pattern of Date Scheduling, Ending Your Dates Early, and Day Time Only Dates) in this series, then you already have a sense of what women look for.

Recently I was talking to my girlfriend and she told me a story about her friend who has been getting cheated on for two years by the same “boyfriend.”

But after hearing the recounts of her friend’s travails, I realized that her friend wasn’t really the girlfriend at all, she was the other woman. The girl in the story didn’t recognize it, neither did my girlfriend (lucky me), but I sure did.

I chuckled to myself though, wondering how they missed the obvious signs.
Regardless of their naivety, there are women out there that will not overlook the following tell-tale sign of a cheater, so pay attention.

Leaving Early on Special Occasions and Holidays
That’s right, this guy in the story (and I’ve met him personally at a barbecue, he’s the complete definition of the word; chump, but I still have to give him credit for having the balls to try it) dropped her off at 9pm on New Year’s Eve claiming he got sick from dinner and had to go home.
Yea, I’m laughing right now too.

Nevertheless, the girl bought it, otherwise I wouldn’t be writing this blog. He obviously had plans with his real girlfriend for New Years Eve but knew he couldn’t avoid a date with his #2 girl on that important day, so he scheduled her early and faked his way out of the date. It was a sad excuse, and to anyone reading this… I in NO WAY RECOMMEND THAT APPROACH.

Most of you know my theory of breaking up with all your women except your girlfriend during the Holiday Season to maintain your sanity. That’s the way to do it, and you avoid having to buy multiple presents.

Now, to address the issue at hand; Leaving Early on Special Occasions and Holidays.
If you develop a habit of leaving early from a date, party, or a get together that one of your women has planned for your birthday, special occasion (i.e. Graduation) or national holiday that everyone celebrates, she will inevitably get suspicious.

Seriously, if you think about it; who goes home on New Year’s Eve with a sick stomach? You stick it out till midnight, or try to sleep it off at her house. Same thing with the July 4th barbecue, you have to stick around for the fireworks after. As well as on Christmas Eve, your birthday, and so forth.

Maybe you can get out of it once, but if you make it a habit it will definitely stick out in the girl’s memory since it happened on an important day.

The best way to avoid this problem is to plan ahead. Figure out which girl you want to spend it with and make up an excuse why you won’t be able to hang out with your other women a few weeks ahead of time and let them know. This way they can plan their day and there will be no drama concerning why you have leave early.

When it comes to your birthday, I have a blog dedicated to just that situation, take a look.

Take Care,
A.C.

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