The first thing you need to do is decide whether infidelity is something you want to explore. It’s important to ask yourself why you are planning to cheat on your girlfriend. So what is your motivation? Is your girlfriend not quite as attractive as you would like? Does she perform poorly in the bedroom? Does she annoy you when she smacks her gum? Or do you just want a new girlfriend, but want to explore that territory with the safety net of having your existing girlfriend to fall back on?
Now we can move on to the ramifications of your decision. You are about to embark on a road where if unsuccessful you will most likely ruin your existing relationship with your girlfriend, someone you obviously care about otherwise you would have not adorned her with that status. If this is not a problem for you, then you can skip the rest of this paragraph and move on to the following one. But, if this suddenly strikes a chord with you then you better take some time to ponder whether you actually want to do this, or whether you just like to daydream about it. Consider if the heartache that might ensue for both you and your girlfriend is worth the risk. Once you start cheating, you cannot ever return to the same relationship you had previous of the act. The fact that you cheated will always be there, in your mind, in your past. Once you start cheating you will be slightly altered from the way you were before. You’ll grow colder to the needs of the women around you, since they will become more like interchangeable pieces of a puzzle, rather than people with feelings and emotions.
It will be in your best interest to keep your personal feelings separated from your endeavors. For as soon as you start developing a conscience, as soon as you begin to feel sympathy for any of the women you are dating you will lose you’re edge. Your game will suffer and you will make a mistake that will get you caught. If you start developing feelings for any other woman besides your girlfriend, I sincerely suggest you stop seeing that woman immediately. Nothing positive can come of loving two women. It will only make you miserable and confound you with confusion and guilt.
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