In my last blog we began to discuss the personality types in women that you can exploit for your infidelity. Some women are dominated by certain personality traits that make them easy to cheat on, and identifying those traits can be key to making your infidelity easier to hide and to help you avoid getting caught.
Today, we will look at the trusting type of woman, a wonderful characteristic in both friendship and romantic relationships. However, it also a something that can be exploited to the benefit of the cheater when properly manipulated.
The Trusting Type:
The trusting type is easily taken advantage of, a sad truth. The quality that is valued greatly in a monogamous relationship is the one that can be exploited exceptionally well when being unfaithful.
This character trait in woman will led them to trust their man because that's what they are used to. What their man tells them is the truth and there is usually not much debate.
This type of girl most often avoids conflict at all costs to avoid having to initiate interrogations and awkward confrontations. Even if there are obvious clues, sometimes this type of woman will tend to ignore them on the basis of her blind trust.
As with the Oblivious Type, don't get sloppy and you won't have too many problems in this situation. You can get this type of woman to fill the #2 role in your rotation quite easily, just remember that she will most likely think that she is your girlfriend so you will have to spend more time with her than a normal mistress.
In my next blog we will discuss the next set of personality traits that you can exploit in women for your cheating ways, they will be: The Scandalous Type.
Stay tuned.
A.C.
Thursday, September 11, 2008
The Trusting Type
Thursday, September 4, 2008
The Oblivious Mistress
An important determining factor in choosing women to cheat on your girlfriend with is personality. This is paramount since personality cannot be changed or altered in most cases. There are many different personality types; most are detrimental to infidelity. However, there a few traits that can be exploited. Let’s explore one that will allow you to cheat more freely, the Oblivious.
The Oblivious Type:
The oblivious personality is pretty self-explanatory. She is too preoccupied with herself, her career, family, or hobby to even consider the fact that her man might be cheating on her.
The more time her man doesn't spend with her allows her more time to concentrate on herself and her activities of choice. If you are involved with a woman of this type, she will make it very easy to cheat on her. She is to wrapped up in herself to notice that she is neglecting your needs and providing you ample opportunity to stray.
You probably want this woman to play the role of your #2 girl since she has no clue of what's going on, but is still probably under the assumption that you and she are exclusive.
She wouldn’t consider you her boyfriend, but would in most cases consider the two of you dating. She will give you a lot of leeway due to her distraction with her personal issues which you should take advantage of, just don’t get overconfident or sloppy.
In my next blog we will discuss another personality trait that you can exploit in women for your cheating ways: the trusting type.
Stay tuned.
A.C.
Thursday, August 14, 2008
Treat Your Girlfriend Like A Princess
The title of this blog is what I tell guys that ask me how to keep their women from being suspicious.
If it doesn’t make any sense initially, then give it some thought. Sometimes the best offense is the best defense.
It’s very simple; just treat her like all women fantasize about being treated, like a princess. Romance her and pay her generous compliments often, buy her little tokens of affection to let her know you are thinking about her, call her to say you just wanted to hear her voice, and when you two are together focus only on her without any distractions.
Keeping her in fantasyland will accomplish many things that are beneficial to your hidden agenda.
She will become totally enamored with you, and be more willing to give in to little things such as letting you go out all night with your friends, she might not even mind if you don’t call her till the next day.
She will be less likely to worry about other women or become overly suspicious of your activities since you are continuously showing her that she is the main focus of your life.
You can start to see the line of reasoning; if she is happy she will let you do things that she might not otherwise. If you keep her in princess fantasyland she will have no reason to suspect anything, leaving you free to cheat on her as you desire.
This is an indirect way of reinforcing your way of keeping your girlfriend in check. Instead of accomplishing this directly by telling her what you want or forcing your philosophy on her, you let her do it to herself.
This method will take more creativity and manipulation, as well as more work and effort on your part, but when executed correctly the rewards far outweigh the labor involved.
Keeping her happy means keeping her mind occupied with romance and satisfaction of your relationship. Keeping her mind occupied means fewer chances for her to be wondering what you might be getting into.
It works, trust me.
Happy Cheating,
A.C.
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
A College Student Makes A Great Mistress.
A woman’s lifestyle can be a great indicator whether she might be ripe for infidelity. If she is preoccupied by certain aspects in her life that demand her attention more than a romantic relationship, then they might be a prime candidate to either cheat on or to become your mistress.
In my previous blogs, I talked about Single Mothers and Workaholics as women that fit those categories. In today’s edition I will analyze another lifestyle choice that you can exploit, if you so choose.
Student:
A student’s time is consumed by academic endeavors thus leaving little time for romance. So when the moment of opportunity arises they will jump at the chance to spend some quality time with you.
This works a little better for a woman who has a career and is working on a degree at the same time. Her time will be dedicated to her job during the day, while studying and classes will dominate her schedule in the evenings and weekends. Thus you will have ample time to pursue other women while she is writing papers or going to classes.
A woman attaining her undergraduate degree as a fulltime student will have time for a more conventional relationship. But nevertheless her schedule will still be dedicated to her studies but not as much as a woman that has both a job and academic endeavors.
Note that there is certain calendar cycles associated with the school year. During breaks and holidays these types of women might want to make up for lost time by spending every waking moment with you, putting an immense burden on your other relationships. To play it safe you will have to either terminate the relationship heading into long breaks such as summer or winter, or have a very difficult schedule during those times.
If you can somehow find a combination of both a student and a workaholic you might have hit the jackpot, since most of their free time spent with you will be for sexual encounters. Keep your eye out for these types of women. You will be well rewarded.
I hope you enjoyed this week’s Lifestyle Series. If I missed any lifestyle aspects that you think should be included feel free to contact me or post a comment and I will address it in a future blog.
A.C.
Thursday, July 24, 2008
A Workaholic Lifestyle Makes Any Woman Easy To Cheat On
Workaholic:
Whether it’s their own choice, or if their career dictates it, when they spend too much time at the office that directly plays to your hand. Any woman who falls into this category will make an excellent secondary woman.
The reasons are self-evident and parallel to those of the single mothers; their time is committed to something other than their boyfriends. This, however, does not exclude them from seeking out a relationship, but it has to be on their terms. Meaning that the man they date has to be willing to tailor his time around her work schedule, which the shrewd player should turn to his advantage.
Since her work schedule will usually be predictable, you can easily weave a couple of other relationships around women who are engrossed in their careers. You just have to show up when they have time for their relationship and most likely they will want to dive right into the affections that have eluded them.
Another benefit of the workaholic is that their careers often take them out of town, allowing for more time to spend with your other women, as well as reducing the chances of accidentally bumping into them when you’re out on the town with one of your aforementioned women.
A workaholic is an ideal woman to cheat on. Her time is frequently allocated to her career, out of town often, and a predictable schedule will allow a copious amount of free time to pursue other avenues of interest.
Stay tuned we will continue the Lifestyle Series in my next blog.
A.C.
Friday, July 18, 2008
Single Mothers Make an Attractive Option for Infidelity
There are lifestyle choices women make, whether intentional or not, that make them an attractive number two or three option in your repertoire because of exactly that; their lifestyle.
Their current circumstance really skews the advantage in your favor allowing you far greater latitude with your infidelity than you would have in a normal relationship. Unfair advantage or not, capitalizing on such conditions can make for really easy opportunities to expand your infidelity.
Single Mothers:
At the first mention of this you might think, “How is this beneficial to me?” But, you have to dive beneath the surface and analyze the situation. Most men see the child, think of the added responsibility and aggravation of dragging the little rug rat along everywhere, and having to constantly work around that annoyance. However, if you take a moment to turn this situation to your advantage you might have found a diamond in the rough.
First, single mothers have a harder time finding men that will enter into a relationship due to the obvious complications, so when a guy offers interest they’ll be far more receptive than under usual dating conditions.
Second, just the fact that you accept her with another man’s child, she’ll think of you as different and far more understanding than the other men. So right from the start you’re already elevated to a slightly higher esteem due to the fact that you are willing to make a “sacrifice” and explore a relationship with her, regardless of her child.
Now, let’s discuss what natural advantage this situation provides you. Her first commitment is to the child, never to you. How is this beneficial? Her main focus will always be upon the child, spending time with the child, caring for the child, taking the child places, feeding the child, and so forth. That requires a huge investment of her time, leaving you free to pursue other avenues of entertainment without having her constantly in your business. She doesn’t have that much available time to be checking up on you, most likely she won't.
An wonderful side benefit is that when she does find some free time, she won’t want to waste it, knowing full well that those moments are few and far in between. So taking advantage of this she will usually take you right to her bedroom to make up for all the lost affection she has been craving. You reap all the benefits without having to go out on many dates, which will reduce the chances of getting seen in public. She will invite you over on weekdays after she has put her child to bed for the evening, between 8 – 10pm depending on the age of the child. This will give you a good two to three hours of time alone with her with nothing to do but give her the attention she has been missing.
Having a single mother in your rotation is an excellent idea, they are low maintenance and for the most part preoccupied, making them that much easier to cheat on. If you can manage to find an attractive single mother I sincerely recommend adding her to your repertoire.
Stay tuned we will continue the Lifestyle Series in my next blog.
A.C.
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
Infidelity On the 4th Of July
In honor of Independence Day, I just thought that I’d throw in this public service announcement for all my devoted cheaters as a reminder.
Even though the 4th of July is not as stressful of a holiday as Valentines Day, Christmas, a or New Year’s Eve, it’s still a pretty difficult day for the gentlemen player who is juggling numerous women at the same time.
With multiple balls in the air you have to be quick to make sure you don’t drop the ball with any of your women during this summer holiday.
Like I mentioned earlier the 4th allows you some leeway in making choices regarding which women you will spend time with, as opposed to the other aforementioned holidays that every woman will demand to spend with her man.
With that said, your women will all still try to plan something with you on Independence Day so you have to calculate accordingly.
First you have to decide what you actually want to do and which one of them you want to do it with (if any of them at all). After all you can always just have a barbecue at your buddy’s house or what not.
But if you decide to have a girl along for the ride on the 4th make sure you have a viable excuse for you other women. If it’s your girlfriend that you’re planning to hang with then your excuses can be family related since you shouldn’t be bringing your secondary women around your family anyways, so you can use that. Just tell them that your family spends every 4th of July together and it’s just the immediate family, which should get you out of any obligations with any women where the relationship is just casual.
But if you’re trying to shake your girlfriend to spend time with another woman then you better have a good alibi that you set up in advance of the 4th. Then know exactly what you’re girlfriend is doing and make sure your plans are in the opposite direction. Nothing worse than running into your girl at the fireworks show when you’re with your other woman… that will definitely lead to some pyrotechnics.
Sloppiness on a lesser holiday such as Independence Day has tripped up many would be players who didn’t give his game enough forethought.
Remember to stay disciplined, plan ahead for any holidays, and to keep your game tight.
This is nothing you didn't already know, but a reminder can't hurt.
Take Care,
A.C.
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