I get this question quite frequently, and my answer is always “depends.” There is no set time frame that is applicable for any one woman or relationship.
You and only know the dynamics of your relationship with your mistress, and therefore you and only you can make the call when its time to give her the boot.
But there are a few tell tale signs that you can look for that will let you know that your relationship has ripened and its time to get out.
It’s Time to Dump Your Mistress When:
1. When she starts getting clingy and starts acting like your girlfriend.
- Increased volume of calls
- Increased volume of text messages
2. When she is demanding to spend more time with you, and infringes on your time with your girlfriend.
3. When she starts costing you as much or more than your girlfriend financially (dates, presents, etc.)
4. If she doesn’t know you have a girlfriend but starts getting suspicious and begins asking questions or snooping around.
5. When she asks to be your girlfriend, or asks you to dump your girlfriend so she can take her place.
6. When she starts showing up unannounced to:
- Your home
- Your work
These are all good rules of thumb to go by to let you know that your escapade with your other woman has probably run its course.
Now actually executing a successful breakup with your mistress is another proposition all together, and you have to play it carefully.
In my next blog I will cover Breaking Up With Your Mistress.
Stay Tuned.
Take Care,
A.C.
Monday, December 22, 2008
Friday, December 5, 2008
Cheating During The Holiday Season
This is a busy time of year for everyone regardless. But it’s an especially frustrating and busy time for cheating on your girlfriend. As a cheater you now have to worry about duplicates for everything; buying multiple Christmas presents, disposing of multiple gift receipts, keeping track of what you bought for whom, going to multiple holiday parties, trying to avoid all the holiday photos that might get you caught, etc.
Not to mention the upcoming New Year’s Eve conundrum of which woman you will spend it with, you obviously cannot be with more than one woman, so a choice has to be made. One of them will be disappointed greatly and be very upset with you. At times like this I suggest you pick your girlfriend, the other woman can always be replaced.
It’s a stressful time for a cheater, I know I been there. The best option at this time of year is to cut your secondary women loose before the Holiday Season begins, preferably before Thanksgiving. This will allow you to concentrate on only your girlfriend without any of the ancillary problems created by additional women in your life.
You only have a finite amount of time during the holiday season, and a secondary woman will encroach upon that tremendously.
If you’ve navigated through the Christmas minefield with multiple women without getting caught, now is the time where you must make a bold move… New Year’s Eve. Use whatever legitimate excuse you can to disappoint your secondary women, in fact if you can break up with the temporarily that would be the best option since that would provide you an inherent excuse to avoid her for that night. But if you want to keep her, try to use an all guys poker party or a friend that lives some distance away who is having a get together as an excuse.
But if you were smart, which you should be to play this game, you would have devised an action plan for this event weeks ago.
But remember whatever you do, try not to go to a public party at a club, restaurant, bar, and so on since everyone is out that night and your chances of getting recognized increase dramatically.
This is a busy time of year for everyone regardless. But it’s an especially frustrating and busy time for cheating on your girlfriend. As a cheater you now have to worry about duplicates for everything; buying multiple Christmas presents, disposing of multiple gift receipts, keeping track of what you bought for whom, going to multiple holiday parties, trying to avoid all the holiday photos that might get you caught, etc.
Not to mention the upcoming New Year’s Eve conundrum of which woman you will spend it with, you obviously cannot be with more than one woman, so a choice has to be made. One of them will be disappointed greatly and be very upset with you. At times like this I suggest you pick your girlfriend, the other woman can always be replaced.
It’s a stressful time for a cheater, I know I been there. The best option at this time of year is to cut your secondary women loose before the Holiday Season begins, preferably before Thanksgiving. This will allow you to concentrate on only your girlfriend without any of the ancillary problems created by additional women in your life.
You only have a finite amount of time during the holiday season, and a secondary woman will encroach upon that tremendously.
If you’ve navigated through the Christmas minefield with multiple women without getting caught, now is the time where you must make a bold move… New Year’s Eve. Use whatever legitimate excuse you can to disappoint your secondary women, in fact if you can break up with the temporarily that would be the best option since that would provide you an inherent excuse to avoid her for that night. But if you want to keep her, try to use an all guys poker party or a friend that lives some distance away who is having a get together as an excuse.
But if you were smart, which you should be to play this game, you would have devised an action plan for this event weeks ago.
But remember whatever you do, try not to go to a public party at a club, restaurant, bar, and so on since everyone is out that night and your chances of getting recognized increase dramatically.
Take Care,
A.C.
Not to mention the upcoming New Year’s Eve conundrum of which woman you will spend it with, you obviously cannot be with more than one woman, so a choice has to be made. One of them will be disappointed greatly and be very upset with you. At times like this I suggest you pick your girlfriend, the other woman can always be replaced.
It’s a stressful time for a cheater, I know I been there. The best option at this time of year is to cut your secondary women loose before the Holiday Season begins, preferably before Thanksgiving. This will allow you to concentrate on only your girlfriend without any of the ancillary problems created by additional women in your life.
You only have a finite amount of time during the holiday season, and a secondary woman will encroach upon that tremendously.
If you’ve navigated through the Christmas minefield with multiple women without getting caught, now is the time where you must make a bold move… New Year’s Eve. Use whatever legitimate excuse you can to disappoint your secondary women, in fact if you can break up with the temporarily that would be the best option since that would provide you an inherent excuse to avoid her for that night. But if you want to keep her, try to use an all guys poker party or a friend that lives some distance away who is having a get together as an excuse.
But if you were smart, which you should be to play this game, you would have devised an action plan for this event weeks ago.
But remember whatever you do, try not to go to a public party at a club, restaurant, bar, and so on since everyone is out that night and your chances of getting recognized increase dramatically.
This is a busy time of year for everyone regardless. But it’s an especially frustrating and busy time for cheating on your girlfriend. As a cheater you now have to worry about duplicates for everything; buying multiple Christmas presents, disposing of multiple gift receipts, keeping track of what you bought for whom, going to multiple holiday parties, trying to avoid all the holiday photos that might get you caught, etc.
Not to mention the upcoming New Year’s Eve conundrum of which woman you will spend it with, you obviously cannot be with more than one woman, so a choice has to be made. One of them will be disappointed greatly and be very upset with you. At times like this I suggest you pick your girlfriend, the other woman can always be replaced.
It’s a stressful time for a cheater, I know I been there. The best option at this time of year is to cut your secondary women loose before the Holiday Season begins, preferably before Thanksgiving. This will allow you to concentrate on only your girlfriend without any of the ancillary problems created by additional women in your life.
You only have a finite amount of time during the holiday season, and a secondary woman will encroach upon that tremendously.
If you’ve navigated through the Christmas minefield with multiple women without getting caught, now is the time where you must make a bold move… New Year’s Eve. Use whatever legitimate excuse you can to disappoint your secondary women, in fact if you can break up with the temporarily that would be the best option since that would provide you an inherent excuse to avoid her for that night. But if you want to keep her, try to use an all guys poker party or a friend that lives some distance away who is having a get together as an excuse.
But if you were smart, which you should be to play this game, you would have devised an action plan for this event weeks ago.
But remember whatever you do, try not to go to a public party at a club, restaurant, bar, and so on since everyone is out that night and your chances of getting recognized increase dramatically.
Take Care,
A.C.
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
Use The Economic Downturn To Stay In With Your Mistress
We’re all feeling the effects of the financial crisis and economic downturn of the last couple of months, and going forward there is little hope if it abating anytime soon.
There are a however a few benefits that that a shrewd cheater can take advantage of during these turbulent times.
This is the final installment a three part series that will help you keep cheating while other players are sitting on the sidelines.
Using Economic Downturn to Stay In
If you already have a girlfriend and mistress, or an established rotation of other women, then you can use these weak financial times to reduce your risk factor.
Tell your women that you want to safeguard your money since the future is very uncertain and you never know what future costs or issues (job loss) might rear its ugly head. You are concerned for her as well and she should probably do the same.
Therefore, its probably best if both of you conserve together by going out less and staying in more. This course of action will reduce the chances of being caught in public with another woman, while simultaneously increasing the number of times you have sex since you will have to find a way to kill time.
Ordering in and renting movies is a good suggestion, and a timeless classic.
I also recommend having a private cocktail party with just the two of you, allowing you to mix drinks you’ve never tried before which leads to intoxication, which inevitably leads you to the bedroom. You win again.
Remember, even though times are tough for everyone right now, there is always a way to take advantage of a situation for the shrewd cheater.
Take Care,
A.C.
There are a however a few benefits that that a shrewd cheater can take advantage of during these turbulent times.
This is the final installment a three part series that will help you keep cheating while other players are sitting on the sidelines.
Using Economic Downturn to Stay In
If you already have a girlfriend and mistress, or an established rotation of other women, then you can use these weak financial times to reduce your risk factor.
Tell your women that you want to safeguard your money since the future is very uncertain and you never know what future costs or issues (job loss) might rear its ugly head. You are concerned for her as well and she should probably do the same.
Therefore, its probably best if both of you conserve together by going out less and staying in more. This course of action will reduce the chances of being caught in public with another woman, while simultaneously increasing the number of times you have sex since you will have to find a way to kill time.
Ordering in and renting movies is a good suggestion, and a timeless classic.
I also recommend having a private cocktail party with just the two of you, allowing you to mix drinks you’ve never tried before which leads to intoxication, which inevitably leads you to the bedroom. You win again.
Remember, even though times are tough for everyone right now, there is always a way to take advantage of a situation for the shrewd cheater.
Take Care,
A.C.
Thursday, November 20, 2008
Women Look For Financial Security During Financial Crisis
We’re all feeling the effects of the financial crisis and economic downturn of the last couple of months, and going forward there is little hope if it abating anytime soon.
There are a however a few benefits that that a shrewd cheater can take advantage of during these turbulent times.
This is the 2nd installment in a three part series that will help you keep cheating while other players are sitting on the sidelines.
Looking for Financial Security
Women will seek out men that give them the feel of financial security during times of monetary crisis. They want to feel safe with a guy that can take care of them if they desperately need it.
You can appear to be that guy.
Make sure you talk about how financially solid you are right, how the economy isn’t affecting you, and more importantly will not affect you going forward.
This will separate you from the other men in her life that she knows more personal details about (coworkers, friends, ex-boyfriends, etc.) who might be struggling financially.
She will compare them to you and measure that you are in a better position and therefore a better catch.
She will drift to you just for the financial safety aspect since you will seem far more secure then other men in her life, and you will become the Alpha male in this respect.
Take advantage of this and establish yourself as “The Man” and she will act accordingly by accepting your advances.
Sooner than you know, you will be able to add her to your rotation, and she will stay in line from worry that she might alienate or lose you if she puts the usual relationship pressures on you.
Remember, even though times are tough for everyone right now, there is always a way to take advantage of a situation for the shrewd cheater.
Stay tuned for part 3 of this series: Use the Economic Downturn to Stay In With Your Mistress
Take Care,
A.C.
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Friday, November 14, 2008
Exploit the Heightened Emotions of Women During The Economic Downturn
We’re all feeling the effects of the financial crisis and economic downturn of the last couple of months, and going forward there is little hope if it abating anytime soon.
There are a however a few benefits that that a shrewd cheater can take advantage of during these turbulent times.
I have created a three part series that will help you keep cheating while other players are sitting on the sidelines.
Exploit the Heightened Emotional State of Women
The economic crisis is probably affecting women emotionally much harder than their male counterparts, putting them in a heightened emotional state. They are probably far more worried about their credit card debts, monthly expenses, and the potential of a job loss then men are.
If you have a girlfriend then you initially will view this as a negative since she will be more irritable and bitchy than usual.
But they are also distracted by their own personal issues allowing you more time and leeway to engage in your infidelity.
The more women are concerned by their personal fiscal crisis, the less time they spend scrutinizing you, what you’re doing and snooping around your stuff, that’s always a plus.
If you’re working on adding a new woman to your rotation, this is an advantageous position to be in. Most women don’t like to address their problems directly (rather hoping the issues will resolve themselves) and easily fall prey to distraction, and you can be that distraction.
They would much rather focus on a new guy in their life showing them attention, making them feel good about themselves, than figuring out a way to alleviate their stressful financial predicament. This makes them much easier to fit into your rotation as your mistress, since they will be far less likely to concern themselves with normal relationship issues and just look forward to seeing you and forgetting about their troubles.
Remember, even though times are tough for everyone right now, there is always a way to take advantage of a situation for the shrewd cheater.
Stay tuned for part 2 of this series:
Women Look For Financial Security During Financial Crisis
Take Care,
A.C.
There are a however a few benefits that that a shrewd cheater can take advantage of during these turbulent times.
I have created a three part series that will help you keep cheating while other players are sitting on the sidelines.
Exploit the Heightened Emotional State of Women
The economic crisis is probably affecting women emotionally much harder than their male counterparts, putting them in a heightened emotional state. They are probably far more worried about their credit card debts, monthly expenses, and the potential of a job loss then men are.
If you have a girlfriend then you initially will view this as a negative since she will be more irritable and bitchy than usual.
But they are also distracted by their own personal issues allowing you more time and leeway to engage in your infidelity.
The more women are concerned by their personal fiscal crisis, the less time they spend scrutinizing you, what you’re doing and snooping around your stuff, that’s always a plus.
If you’re working on adding a new woman to your rotation, this is an advantageous position to be in. Most women don’t like to address their problems directly (rather hoping the issues will resolve themselves) and easily fall prey to distraction, and you can be that distraction.
They would much rather focus on a new guy in their life showing them attention, making them feel good about themselves, than figuring out a way to alleviate their stressful financial predicament. This makes them much easier to fit into your rotation as your mistress, since they will be far less likely to concern themselves with normal relationship issues and just look forward to seeing you and forgetting about their troubles.
Remember, even though times are tough for everyone right now, there is always a way to take advantage of a situation for the shrewd cheater.
Stay tuned for part 2 of this series:
Women Look For Financial Security During Financial Crisis
Take Care,
A.C.
Monday, October 20, 2008
A Mistress of an Indifferent Type
In my previous blogs I discussed the Oblivious and Trusting as well as the Scandalous and Slut personality traits to look for in women that you plan to cheat on your girlfriend with.
Today I will continue with the last personality features in women that you can exploit for your cheating ways, the Indifferent.
Indifferent
Last but not least, the one that just doesn't care, and one of my personal favorites.
This type of woman is probably trying to kill time until her boyfriend or husband gets out of jail, or gets back from an extended business trip.
She is generally disillusioned with relationships at her present moment in time, putting her in a state of mind where she could just as easily take it or leave it, no big deal to her, either way.
Regardless of her mindset, these types of women are good to stick in your rotation for a few weeks.
Since she doesn’t have much vested interest in a relationship with you besides the entertainment value, free meals, and sex, she will not become a big burden in your life. Keep her as one of your secondary women or relegate her to booty call status and you’ll be just fine.
Hope you enjoyed my series on female personality types that enable Cheating On Your Girlfriend and Not Getting Caught. If you know of any more that I might have missed feel free to comment or contact me.
A. C.
Today I will continue with the last personality features in women that you can exploit for your cheating ways, the Indifferent.
Indifferent
Last but not least, the one that just doesn't care, and one of my personal favorites.
This type of woman is probably trying to kill time until her boyfriend or husband gets out of jail, or gets back from an extended business trip.
She is generally disillusioned with relationships at her present moment in time, putting her in a state of mind where she could just as easily take it or leave it, no big deal to her, either way.
Regardless of her mindset, these types of women are good to stick in your rotation for a few weeks.
Since she doesn’t have much vested interest in a relationship with you besides the entertainment value, free meals, and sex, she will not become a big burden in your life. Keep her as one of your secondary women or relegate her to booty call status and you’ll be just fine.
Hope you enjoyed my series on female personality types that enable Cheating On Your Girlfriend and Not Getting Caught. If you know of any more that I might have missed feel free to comment or contact me.
A. C.
Thursday, October 2, 2008
Your Slutty Mistress
In my previous blogs I was addressing the issue of choosing women by personality types. I discussed the Oblivious, Trusting, and Scandelous personality traits to look for in women you plan to cheat on your girlfriend with and how they can be beneficial when choosing a mistress.
Today I will continue with another personality feature in women that you can exploit for your cheating ways; The Slut.
Slut:
The slut is the one that all of us have come across from time to time. This type is essentially out only for the sex, whatever her reason might be.
Maybe she receives the emotional sustenance that's missing from her life, maybe she is a sex addict, or maybe she thinks this is the way to a man's heart. It doesn't matter, she's offering and you should be taking.
The slut type is easily identified by her actions, her reputation, and by the way she flirts incessantly with any man that gives her the time of day.
She’ll have a tendency to sleep with a high volume of men, but never really have a good reason for doing so. She won’t be able to explain to herself, or her friends why she gave it up to some guy she met earlier that afternoon at the gas station.
She’ll go from guy to guy like a butterfly from flower to flower, until some sucker weds her for a lifetime of heartbreak and infidelity since her behavior will continue well into matrimony.
Don’t be that guy.
Be the guy that beds her not the one that weds her.
This, again, is the type you want to relegate to a booty call. Definitely under no circumstances do you consider this one as you girlfriend, and if you currently have a girlfriend that fits this description, then by all means give her the boot.
Or better yet, get a real girlfriend and keep this one just for the sex, and when she cheats on you, she’s not really cheating on you.
But you want to be careful, if it gets around that you frequent sluts it will cast you in a bad light. If you’re seen having drinks with a girl that's a notorious slut it will be hard to explain away that she is only a friend to anyone that might see you.
By her very reputation you will be associated with her in a sexual regard, and therefore if your girlfriend gets wind of it, she will surely assume you two did the deed, which you probably did.
There is one more personality that you should look for, the Indifferent type, and we’ll cover this in my next blog.
Stay Tuned.
A. C.
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